History

A SHORT HISTORY OF CFM/CFSM ASIA
by Joe and Charito Hilario, Nop and Elma Muangkroot
Reference: ICCFM History by Vernie Dale (www.iccfm.org)

INTRODUCTION
CFM and MFC Beginnings. CFM and MFC started almost simultaneously in the decade that marked the end of World War II. Pat and Patty Crowley had earlier begun coordinating family action groups in Chicago, and by 1948, groups working on the family were present in twenty USA cities. In 1949, "For Happier Families" the first program book based on Cardinal Josef Cardijn's "OBSERVE-JUDGE-ACT" methodology, was published in the USA, and the first National Coordinating Committee for the "Christian Family Movement" was formed with Pat and Patty Crowley as the chairpersons.

Meanwhile in 1948 Fr. Peter Richards regularly gathered some couples at the home of Saturnino and Elena Llorente of Buenos Aires, Argentina, involving them in family action. Two years later in 1950, Fr. Richards initiated similar family action groups in Montevideo, Uruguay, and by 1955 the Movimiento Familiar Cristiano was formed in six countries of South America.

The International Confederation of Christian Family Movements. In 1966 couples and clergy from MFC Latin America, CFM USA, and MFC Spain met in Caracas, Venezuela, and agreed to form the "International Confederation of Christian Family Movements" (ICCFM), for "exchange of information and mutual help of CFM throughout the world." The first elected General Secretaries were Luz and Jose Alvarez of Mexico City. In 1967 at an ICCFM meeting convened in Madrid, the role of General Secretaries passed to Pat and Patty Crowley. Three points were forged as integral to the character of the Confederation: promoting and establishing communication between CFM groups throughout the world, keeping the Confederation service-oriented and stating the ecumenical character of the Confederation.

THE BEGINNINGS OF CFM/CFSM ASIA
Asian travels by the Crowleys. In early 1956, Pat and Patty Crowley travelled to Asia, taking with them the CFM handbook For Happier Families. They visited Tokyo, Hongkong, Manila, Saigon, Singapore and Bombay. Peter Sawada of Japan had learned about CFM while he was a student in the University of Purdue, Indiana. In 1952, he and his wife Mary organized a CFM unit in Tokyo, and the Crowleys visited them. In the Philippines Tony and Teresa Nieva took the Crowleys to meet the Archbishop of Manila Rufino Cardinal Santos and the head of the Philippine Catholic Action Bishop Vicente Reyes, who gave their blessings to the formation of CFM units in the country. The Crowleys' contact person in India was Fr. Dalmeida who had visited them while he was studying at Notre Dame. They met Fr. Angelo Fernandez who helped organize the CFM in Bombay, led by Joe and Margaret D'Silva.

Saddened by the poverty in Saigon, the Crowleys became more aware of the social injustice that was also prevalent in other parts of the world, and this awareness greatly influenced the ICCFM social action perspective. They organized a unit in Saigon, Vietnam, composed of four couples and a priest.

In Sri Lanka Percy and Agnes Silva had both been members of the Young Christian Students and the Youth Apostolate Movement. Two years after their marriage in 1967, they wrote to the Crowleys about forming CFM. The Crowleys sent them copies of For Happier Families, and the Silvas organized a CFM unit in Negombo with the help of Rev. Fr. Ernest Poruthota.

The establishment of CFM/CFSM Asia. At the 1969 World Assembly of Families and ICCFM General Assembly held at the University of Notre Dame in Indiana, CFM Asia assumed its continental identity and became a member of the International Confederation of Christian Family Movements, with Sito and Sony Sison of the Philippines as the first presidents. The following is a complete list of couples who served as continental Asia presidents:

  • Sito and Sony Sison, 1969-1981
  • Tony and Teresa Nieva, 1981-1987
  • Nop and Elma Muangkroot, 1987-1993
  • Joe and Charito Hilario, 1993-1999
  • Dennis and Fanny Chua, 1999-2005
  • Mel and Emma Ricafrente, 2005-2010
  • Cyril and Carmen D'Souza, 2010-2015
  • Epifano and Wilma Cua, 2016-2018
  • Anita and Lukose Vallatharai, 2019-2021
CHALLENGES TO CFM ASIA TODAY
Becoming witnesses to God's love. Every person is called to be evangelized and to evangelize, so that God's love can be truly felt in everyone. The CFM ought to be a loving community where every member is valued. "If you have love for one another, then everyone will know that you are my disciples." (John 13:35)

Developing the youth. One of the excerpts from the "Lineamenta" for the Special Synod of Bishops for Asia states, "Though ancient, Asia is at the same time a very young continent. Over 60% of its population is made up of young persons. They constitute the hope and future of Asia." Young people are also the hope of the CFM. It is the young people who suffer most from the pressures and attacks on the family today, thus CFM Asia should focus more on the youth.

Coordinating and networking with the clergy, other family life groups and renewal movements. Today CFM no longer has the monopoly of family life programs. The 1960's to 1970's saw the rise of other movements involved in family life and advocacies. Let us heed the words of Blessed John Paul II in Familiaris Consortio: "Finally I wish to call on all Christians to collaborate cordially and courageously with all people of goodwill who are serving the family in accordance with their responsibilities."

Keeping abreast of Vatican directions and documents. Christ continues to guide us through the teachings of the Church which he founded. There is a need to follow the recent teachings of the Church and the words of the Holy Father Pope Francis in our family evangelization mission.

CONCLUSION
Asia, continent of the future. Asia is the largest and most populated continent in the world, and the Asian continent is the birthplace of the main religions in the world. Asia's vast size and numerous peoples give Asia a great geographical, ethnic, cultural, political and religious variety.

The rapid economic growth that the continent is enjoying also involves some negative aspects that still have to be addressed to ensure a harmonious and continuous development. Among these problems are the following:
  • excessive exploitation of the natural resources and the environment
  • abuse of human labor
  • increasing gap between the rich and poor
  • forced migration
  • secularism
These worldwide realities, so pervasive in Asia, generate social problems that endanger the family. It is important for organizations serving the family to actively advocate for social justice and respect for human rights in order to effect change, even in small steps.

CFM Asia's missionary call. Asia is the great missionary challenge of the third millennium. In Asia lives not only the majority of the world's population, but also the majority of the world's non-Christians. CFM'ers are missionaries, called to evangelize families. Therefore, let CFM Asia respond to Christ's call to "make disciples of all nations" (Matthew 28:19) and to "Come, follow me." (Mark 10:21)